Every January, families share a familiar hope: “This year has to be different. They need more independence. They need to grow up.” Yet, a fresh calendar rarely brings fresh habits, especially for teens and young adults facing challenges with executive functioning, anxiety, or motivation. The excitement of “new year, new me” often fades quickly without clear systems, structure, or support. If your household has already started 2026 feeling stuck, you are not alone. You are not

The recent tragedy involving Rob Reiner’s family has struck a nerve for many of us—especially those who work closely with families behind closed doors. It’s a reminder of how quiet suffering can be, even in homes filled with love. As someone who’s worked as a behavior teacher for teens navigating trauma, addiction, and undiagnosed mental illness, I’ve seen what most people will never see in a classroom. I’ve witnessed spirals, psychotic breaks, emotional warfare—and I’ve sat

If You Want Them to Have a Clue at 22, Start at 12. One of the biggest things I say (over and over) is this: Exposure and experience are the greatest teachers. We often talk about preparing kids and teens for adulthood—but preparation doesn’t happen through lectures or checklists. It happens through living alongside them.  It happens when they tag along to the grocery store, when they overhear you on a phone call, when they sit next to you at the bank, the dealership, or your

“Why can’t they just do it?” If you've ever asked yourself this about your teen or college-age child, you're not alone. Maybe they miss appointments, forget to text you back, or keep promising to do something but never follow through. They’re smart. Capable. Maybe even thriving in certain areas. But something’s not clicking—and it’s causing chaos at home, in school, or in life. This might not be defiance or immaturity. It might be executive dysfunction . What Is Executive Dys